In the later part of 2008, Dove compiled a national report on young women: 'Real Girls, Real Pressure: A National Report on the State of Self-Esteem.' Some of the results were startling – 7 out of 10 girls feel they do not measure up in some way, including their looks, performance in school and/or relationships with family and friends. The worst part is that insecurity has been proven to lead to self-destructive behavior such as eating disorders, cutting, bullying, smoking or drinking.
In response to the report, the company launched a self-esteem fund and hopes to reach 5 million girls with positive efforts around self-esteem by the year 2010.
Actress, singer and entrepreneur Raven-Symone of 'That's So Raven,' 'The Cosby Show' and 'Cheetah Girls' fame first became involved with the self-esteem initiative after seeing those fabulous Dove commercials with real women – sans makeup -- and was enamored of the way the company "widened the perception of beauty." The 23-year-old said she called up the company and asked to be down.
"I love being a part of things -- whether it's TV shows or albums -- that promote high self-esteem and respect toward yourself and others. So I called Dove, and they let me know about Dove's workshop tour, where we go and sit down with about 60 to 100 girls, ages 11 and 12. We talk about building tools for mothers, girls and even mentors that help to render self-confidence and teach them a better a way to look at themselves."
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Raven-Symone, who, along with author and therapist Jess Weiner, taught a self-esteem workshop with pre-teen girls in Cape May, NJ, in early January. She talked, shared and did role-playing around healthy self-esteem.
"I want to hear their stories," she says. "I want to hear the girls who engage in negative activities like eating, cutting, binging or smoking because of their low self-esteem."
As a young actress who has been in the spotlight even before she played the character of Olivia at the age of 4 on 'The Cosby Show,' Raven-Symone knows a thing or two about unrealistic images portrayed by media – and how what you see isn't really what you get.
"One of the stories I'm going to share with them is when I went to a photo shoot and I got to air-brush myself. I was able to, literally, take away my own flaws that I personally didn't like," she says.
"So then you have some girls looking at these magazine covers with women on them not realizing that that's not how that person looks in real life. I'm not saying that's the only reason why 75% of young girls with low self-esteem feel they don't measure up or feel they have to go through extreme measures to look like that, but it is definitely one of the many things that lead to low self-esteem.
Raven-Symone, who herself does not have a "standard" figure, will also talk to them about healthy body image.

"Over the years, I've been talked to by all kinds of people with all kinds of titles who've told me how I look or how I don't look. At the end of the day, I have to come home to myself, and I have to look at myself in the mirror," she says. "There will always be things that I would like to change about myself and when I'm ready to change them I will, but I'm not going to in an unhealthy way. I'm always going to use positive language to describe my body."
Another big piece of the study found that 42 percent of African American girls with low self-esteem have a mother who criticizes her own looks. And girls with low self-esteem are less likely to receive praise from either parent and are more likely to receive criticism than girls with high self-esteem.
Raven-Symone, whose parents have always been an integral part of her career and who the actress says are "truth talkers," says parents need to be active listeners.
"I think that parents in this world need to learn the correct language to speak with their children" she explains. " They need learn to listen and understand and remember that they were kids once, and not speak down to us. Simply working with your kids and talking to them will help the negative percentage go down."
"I'm with Dove to get into the brains of these girls to understand and, hopefully, help them get out of this negative thinking.
"If you have good self-esteem, it shows on your face. When you're proud of yourself and you're happy with yourself, you feel good about yourself and you can accomplish things. In a vain way, it truly makes you look better, and in a non-vain way, you can help others when you're happy. No matter what you look like, it makes you look good," she says.
For more information on Raven-Symone: www.ravensimonepresents.com
For more information on the Dove Self Esteem Awareness Initiative (including resources for parents and mentors): www.campaignforrealbeauty.com

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By: strawberrycream on 1/26/2009 12:11PM
RAVEN IS A GOOD ROLE MODEL 4 YOUNG GIRLS AND SHE PROVES U DON'T HAVE TO BE A SIZE 2 TO BE BEAUTIFUL SHE HAS A HEAD ON HER SHOULDER THANKS TO HER PARENTS.WE NEED MORE YOUNG PEOPLE LIKE HER KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK RAVEN.
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By: Katricia on 1/26/2009 12:39PM
I think Raven Symone looks beautiful, and she should flaunt her gorgeous figure!! I know a lot of people gave her a hard time for putting on all that weight when she had her TV Show, but you know what, who care!! Whenever women gain weight we are scrutinized so viciously in the public eye and it's not right. A lot of people gain weight, but that doesn't mean they are any less of a person or any less attractive. Ravan is doing a great service to the young ladies out there that are going through a lot of insecurties, keep up the good work!!
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By: Tru-Dru on 3/06/2009 1:54PM
i agree with your comment--Raven is one of the best actresses out there, and by far the most beautiful go to google.com and search for most beautiful entertainer, and see what u get. Raven is also winning on here: http://www.topix.com/forum/topstories/TSLC64UFMKG1Q00HV make sure you all support raven like i do. also go to www.myspace.com/trudrumusic for new postings on raven, and more.
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By: Poetic Taye on 1/26/2009 12:37PM
i adore raven. she makes me feel better about my size as well, and she carries herself with such respect.
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By: fe77ell on 1/26/2009 1:43PM
Raven seems like a very nice young lady. Very grounded & beautiful.
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By: mary on 1/26/2009 1:45PM
Raven I'm very proud of you i have followed your career since you were a child and it takes a positive intellegent and unselfish indiviual who would take the iniative in order to help other see the beauty that we as females have been placed on earth to blossom that is definetly the Godly way. this is why the young ladies look up to you you are a unique person please keep up the good work and if you are ever in Boston please look me up just to hear you speak at our program would be such a Blessing I work around young people and self esteem and Asthma disease l i go through teaching our youths that howing who as cl
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By: Valentina on 1/26/2009 3:03PM
Raven is a very attractive young lady. Men these days seem to prefer more meat on them bones, or at least I do. I like soft bodies, I don't want my girl to scratch me with her sharp skinny elbows!
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By: Lucille on 1/26/2009 3:10PM
I used to watch "That's So Raven" all the time when I was in high school...I remember feeling lifted and a bit happier after coming home from a bad day and watching her show. Raven brought alot of her down-to-earth personality into her character, which is why i'm so happy to hear that she's taking part in something so positive and uplifting to young girls. I think it's stupid how women are valued based on their looks....Raven makes such a humble, grounded role model for young women everywhere!!! I'm so happy for what she's doing!!!!!
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By: blackm4asnorwhtf on 1/26/2009 3:30PM
It is one thing to teach those overweight pre-teens to be happy in their own skin and to have positive self(body)-images; however, these same girls will soon become interested in boys/dating. What do you say to those same girls when they come home crying and depressed because they always get passed over for the thin/petite/fit girls? Seriously, looks are important to us all when it comes to finding a partner. And the truth of the matter is that most men (not all) prefer a "lowfat" or "non-fat"/fit woman. In my 28 years, I have never heard a man describe a fat woman as desirable. So that's my question... After youve polluted the girls mind with that "it's okay to be fat"/"love the skin you're in" nonsense, and then the hormones kick in and they want to attract a guy... What do you say then? Looks are the first thing that attracts most men to a woman he's interested in... After that is when we start to consider personality, intelligence, etc. Do you even let them know ahead of time that they will have to work much harder than girls with a "standard" figure in order to "bait" a man?
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By: Jason on 1/26/2009 3:34PM
The 23-year-old said she called up the company and asked to be down. Great now I have to read sentences like this. Can you imagine foreign relations when the next generation is in power? We cant even form a sentence without sounding like morons. Ya heard yo, I'm down G'thang.
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