
As songbird Jennifer Hudson faces scrutiny over the 80 pounds she recently dropped, fellow Oscar-winning actress Mo'Nique isn't fazed by public opinion and plans to drop even more weight.
Two years after unveiling her new physique, Mo'Nique is still a stunner. She initially dropped 45 pounds, down from 262 to 217, and currently fluctuates between 211 and 206. While her progress is pretty impressive, the late-night talk show diva has another goal in mind.
"I want to get to 180. That's an amazing weight for me. I'm still a thick girl but it's a healthy weight," Mo'Nique, 43, says, explaining that she'd never seen that weight when she stepped on the scale. "I went from being a child to a woman. I remember being weighed in the tenth grade and I was 190."
She has shared with her 'The Mo'Nique Show' audience that keeping the weight off "is a constant commitment that you have to follow." Mo'Nique admits that while promoting being big, beautiful and healthy, she wasn't always taking her advice on the healthy part.
"I have worked so hard to get to this, do you hear me?" she told audience members during her show's premier season as she sashayed in a very flattering black dress and pointed out her new-found curves.
So, just how much hard work has she put in? Well, at least five times a week, Mo'Nique is up at 5:30 a.m. getting it in at the gym. She works for an hour with a trainer who keeps the routines exciting by having the comedienne do everything from weight training, boxing, and football drills to sprinting, pull-ups on the dip bar and, on warm days, jogging outdoors. Her workouts have increased in intensity and frequency over time, with her starting out with three times a week two years ago.
And Mo'Nique enjoys it. "It's fun, especially when you start seeing results," says the svelte actress, who works out with two other women. Although she could feel the weight coming off, it took about a year before she could really see the difference, and that was motivating.
"I love the way that shape is shaping up. Not that it's all the way I want it to be but the way it's shaping up!" she exclaims excitedly.
Now, when it comes to eating, Mo'Nique's found that to be a bit more challenging. Sure, she has will power, but avoiding late-night eating was an adjustment. She tries not to eat after 8 p.m. and her menu options often consists of fish, soups, yogurt, cashews and salads sprinkled with strawberries, cucumbers, raisins and a homemade dressing of honey, apple cider vinegar and oil.
"It's very healthy, but it's very good. You begin to know what your body needs," she says.
Moderation is key in order to maintain her weight while consuming the calorie-rich foods typically served during the holiday season. "The one thing I didn't want to do is drive myself crazy where it's I can only have this, I can only have that," she says. Presently there are things that her body doesn't even crave anymore.
"I used to absolutely adore Buffalo wings. Girl, I used to adore Buffalo wings. Now I can leave it," says Mo'Nique, referencing a feat which may be tougher in metro Atlanta, where there are wing spots all over.
She takes it moment-by-moment and realizes the risks involved if not disciplined.
"I know if I go eat those Buffalo wings and I don't go to the gym, one day becomes the next day and the next day and the next day and then you look up and you're almost 300 pounds," she explains.
In all honesty, Mo'Nique is trying to get away from eating chicken as well and one day would like to have a diet that mirrors vegetarianism.
"I'm aiming not to eat anything with a face. Because they have parents; they come from a family. Really, it's like, if we were back in the dinosaur days, the dinosaurs were eating the people. You see? I want to really not eat anything with a face; anything that's living," Mo'Nique says half-jokingly.
Her current weight loss plan is the first one she's stuck with consistently, although she did try a few diets in the past. "I remember when they talked about the cabbage diet. I think I did that for two days, I was like uhn-uhn," Mo'Nique says.
This time, she says, she couldn't fool around because "at 262 pounds I could have never done that show because I wouldn't have been able to have the energy."
But it's the men in her life – husband Sidney Hicks, her 5-year-old twin sons and her 20-year-old son – that keep her sticking with her new regimen.
"When I look at our kids, it's like, 'let me go put the work in because I don't want to be a burden to my family for being neglectful,'" says Mo'Nique, who also started to see a therapist as she began to slim down. The sessions help her uncover the reasons behind the weight gain and help her to really get to know herself.
That's the message she tells other plus-sized women who seem inspired by her progress and want to make a lifestyle change too.
"For the most part sisters are like, 'hey, let's do it,'" she says.
Mo'Nique has a few motivational tips women who may need a little nudge with weight management:
1. Don't let a hairstyle stop you. "Often times I hear sisters say, 'Girl, I ain't getting my hair messed up.' It's like we'll be unhealthy because we're worried what our hair looks like," Mo'Nique says. Her suggestion? "Get you some fabulous wigs, honey, slap that hair up and go get fit."
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2. Make the time. Many women say they're too busy to workout. No excuses, says Mo'Nique. "You deserve that time. You still deserve your time. It takes 60 minutes out of a 24-hour day. You still have 23 hours left," she says.
3. Just do it. Mo'Nique advises you to put your best foot forward and keep on moving. "Discover the woman inside," she says. "You'll feel better."
Do you have an inspiring weight loss story? Tell us!

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By: Melissa Danielle on 3/07/2011 1:44PM
She looks great! Size is not an indicator of good health, but everyone should include clean eating and physical activity into their daily routines. Werk!!
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By: cole on 3/07/2011 6:49PM
Is this the same lady that made a lot of money off of a book called "Skinny ladies are evil?"
Just goes to show you can't take advice from people. I thought she was encouraging people to stay happy "big," in her book.
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By: ebonyblazer on 3/07/2011 3:41PM
Cole, what it says to me is that one can experience growth as a person. I'm not really a fan of Mo'Nique, but a part of me can believe she really meant that 'Skinny Ladies are Evil' stuff at the time, that she was merely rebelling against some of the worst comments and attitudes lobbed against her to that point. Now that's she's long established herself as something well beyond 'a former UPN sitcom star', perhaps she doesn't feel a need to be pigeonholed as the fat-and-happy comedianne anymore, that she could perhaps be something more. Mo'Nique apparently admires Hattie McDaniel to the point of wanting to explore her career ('Nique apparently owns the rights to produce a biopic about her) and trying to give her work going forward a new dignity beyond just chitlin' chuckle-worthy comedy.
Or perhaps a light went on in her head that these paychecks aren't going to be enjoyed as much being a 300 pound blob. I dunno.
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By: Greg on 3/09/2011 6:55AM
I have to agree! In reality Monique had to lose that weight! Because it became in fact a health issue that was a serous liability, that almost killed her! She just like the majority of BW "still" to this day are in complete denial about their weight! And, yes I recall all Monique all she did was run around putting BW down that weren't FAT! That attitude, and mind set only served to encourage other BW, and in particular these younger black girls to ignore their health! Just, like the first poster said, and is "wrong" size is in fact the primary indicator as it relates to someone's health....particularly BW! The harsh reality of this continuing "epidemic" in the African American community with BW is totally "out of control"!
Here's the facts!
According to the "Centers for Disease Control", (CDC)
"80.3%", that's 4 out of 5 African American women are either
overweight, or obese for "all" black women in the US today! And, also
BW are the most overweight for their gender for all races as well, and
continue to be the fastest growing segment in the country for being
overweight!
BW also have the "highest prevalence" of obesity at "49.6%" than all
other races of women in the US. That drum has been beaten on for years
now, but the majority of BW still continue to be in total denial about
their weight....which by the way are serious weight-related health
problems! Health issues that contributes to a myriad of health
related issues. They included the following:
type 2 diabetes
coronary heart disease
high LDL ("bad") cholesterol
stroke
hypertension
nonalcoholic fatty liver disease
gallbladder disease
osteoarthritis (degeneration of cartilage and bone of joints)
sleep apnea and other breathing problems
some forms of cancer (breast, colorectal, endometrial, and kidney)
complications of pregnancy
menstrual irregularities
increased risk varies by cause of death, and this increased risk is
due to cardiovascular disease.
And, please, don't get all caught up in that "ongoing" nonsense about being
"curvy", because that's nothing more than another fake substitute for
the usual "FAT". And, it's not in the least appealing, attractive,
nor certainly isn't healthy!
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By: bed5d0e on 3/09/2011 10:03AM
Okay!
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By: Ellice on 3/09/2011 2:49PM
When Monique wrote that book, I knew that one day she would change her mind. You change your mind, when the doctor or loved ones tells you that you are going to get high blood pressure, heart disease, diabetes. Also, she's a celebrity and they make their money off of whatever they believe at the time until reality hits. Monique isn't a doctor, therefore you should consult with your own doctor when a celebrity is telling you to stay fat,that it's ok to be fat or to lose too much weight. Deep down inside we all know that it isn't healthy. The black community is still in denial. The fatter you are the more you are susceptible to diabetes, cancer, heart disease, etc. The black community is giving Jennifer Hudson a hard time for losing 80 pounds. When she was fat/very overweight and down and out everyone was loving her. Now, it's "She lost too much weigh and she's too skinny." Guess what, most likely, she won't be the one six feet under before she turns 40. Keep up the good work Jennifer and Monique, because one day the rest of the black community will wake-up and realize that they need to stop eating fried foods, and too much salt and sugars.
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By: teabaggeredgar on 3/07/2011 6:37PM
Hey monEAT: Now you keep shaving.
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By: Sarah Pailing..... on 3/09/2011 5:24PM
You Peebaggers crack he up. So ignorant....
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By: cole on 3/11/2011 5:02AM
So that's it? Say what you want about people and then say,
"I've grown since then."
Got it!
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By: Garry Lewis on 3/08/2011 11:07PM
If she loses some of her "ghettoism" lots more of those pounds will fall off....Ghetto as all get out!
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