
From Clutch:
We've all seen her - the young black girl at the bus stop with a couple kids at her heels, one in a stroller, and another on the way. We want to know why she keeps having kids she can't afford.
If I leave the office on my lunch break, I'm apt to see all kinds of people roaming the streets. It's the middle of the day, why aren't you at work? I wonder.
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By: Clinesha18 on 8/11/2011 2:52PM
@clarke:
All B.S. aside, real topics need real talk. I just kicking the bull on those irrelevant issues, but that feller up there is out of line placing all blame on BW. Peace out.
Clownesha. (LOL)
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By: Eric on 8/11/2011 7:06PM
You're wrong again, or merely just "stuck on stupid"! Who, ever said that all the blame was on BW? But, since women are the ones that get pregnant, and have the babies, then why not just practice safe sex? That would resolve the issue. How, can you as a woman blame men for impregnating you, if "you" mandate that they use condoms? Number, one they don't have to assume that responsibility by themselves? FYI,,,,They also make condoms for women as well...so what's the excuse for BW continuing to get pregnant, and having all these OOW babies? In, reality there is no logical explanation. You, can also go to the drug store, and pick some up, just as they can! It's, more commonly referred to as "mutual responsibility! Or, are BW just too lazy? That's, the real issue here..your laziness, and the BW's usual blame game. And, as always only continue to try to place the usual BW's pathetic blame on BM? Hey, It's your body, so why not protect it? In, this case you're just as much accountable as they are! But, you don't want to address that issue...do you? That's, called irresponsible behavior, and nothing but the BW's usual denial. So, don't get an attitude just because black women are being put on blast because of their all too well known failure to embrace safe sex like most non-black women are doing. That's, why BW have more AIDS then all other races of women in the US, and STD's as well. Since, BW are busting their butts to try....but can't look like WW, Perhaps you also need to seriously consider taking a page out of their books as it relates to practicing safe sex! If, you invest more time in being both accountable, and responsible then you do with your usual "blame game' nonsense, then all these OOW babies and welfare wouldn't even be an issue! If, you want to blame someone...then blame yourselves! BW continue to have the highest number of aids cases, highest rates of pregnancy, the highest rates of STD's, the highest rates of abortions, and of course the highest numbers of OOW babies. That's a direct result of your ongoing failure to practice safe sex! Don't blame BM..it's your body! BW are, and continue to be the real problems! And, until you change both your attitudes, and your behaviors nothing will change!
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By: Tom sawyer on 8/12/2011 4:24PM
Eric
You seem to have an issue with black women and sound like a black woman hating gay boy. What you need to do is spend your time on why every place on earth where there are black men there is maddening violence. Why 70% in America are or have been in prison. Why black men act so savage and have no respect for black life. And why black men are gang raping little girls. You are to preoccupied with black women to be a real man. You are a bitter wanna have a vagina sicko. Having said that show you are not a phony fake misfit and explain why black men hate being black and are lynching one another with bullet instead of rope you jerk. I don't believe you are black you have too much hatred for your mammy.
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By: Eric on 8/12/2011 6:16PM
Well, perhaps you conveniently want to forget, (but here's a reminder) that wherever there's as you say "maddening violence and BM"...there's also "maddening violence and BW! Are, you simply saying that "black people" as a whole have issues? Or, that black people in general are violent? True, there are large numbers of BM that are in prison. I agree! However, you need to focus on the reasons why? It's certainly not just because they're black, and male. The primary factor is, continues to be, and has been the welfare system. Which, creates poverty, government dependency, increases the lower class, and where you find poverty you'll also find high crime rates. Have, you visited most black communities lately? If, you have, then you'd would've clearly see for yourself what the real problems are, have been, and continue to be! We as a people are sadly our own worse enemy, and with BW continuing to have OOW babies at such numbers doesn't help, nor contribute anything that's value added. These, BW can't even provide for these babies, and they know that! So, why get pregnant in the first place? When, you continue to have young BW having OOW babies at alarming rates, being raised in a single parent homes, and the parents generally not instilling any form of values in their children, then it's predictable that their children will get involved in the usual criminal behavior that is all so common in the African American community today. How, on earth do you think babies can raise more babies when they themselves are still immature children? That's, not going to ever happen, nor is it happening now. Another very important point to add to that, is that when BW made "their" choice....again their choice to listen to WW, and embrace the welfare system that proved to be the beginning of the end for the black family in this country. Because, welfare mandated that the BM be expelled from his home, his children's lives, and his family! Remember, BW themselves made that choice! They, thought that was going to be a form of empowerment, but it sadly only turned out to be a "self imposed economic prison" for both themselves, and their children. That's, why you see young BM in particular going to jail, and also young BW too! selling drugs, as opposed to taking advantage of the many educational opportunities today. These children need both parents in their homes, and their lives, not just one that openly says, " I don't need no man". That's, utter foolishness! Also, perhaps you need to also take a look at the disproportion numbers of BW that are also incarcerated in US prisons as well you'll be surprised before you as per usual point the finger at just BM! If, you want to know why BM aren't there for BW then you have understand that both the welfare system with the help of BW are driving BM away. And, they leaving in mass. If, anyone hates being black, then no one has that mind set more than do BW! That's, why BW have spent over "half a trillion dollars" on "fake hair" and hair products in their perpetual desire to look like WW, but can't measure up! That's, also why BW recently were outraged in that "Psychology Today" article when they were rated the lowest for all races of women. BW thought that just because they're now wearing all that fake hair that they had arrived! The article was right, because when you apply Eurocentric standards to BW, then they'll always end up last! why, because they're not white! That's, also why light skin BW hate dark skin BW, and also why Essence magazine don't put dark skin BW on their covers! Now, if you look like.... let's say a Halle Berry, Beyonce, Alicia Keys, or a Vanessa Williams then yes they're beautiful BW I agree! But, the overwhelming majority of BW don't look like them, not even with all their fake hair or on their best day.
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By: Eric on 8/13/2011 6:55AM
This is not as you say....a "preoccupation" ...not in the least! It's, just the real bitter facts! Facts, that are based on real life statistics, about the black community. If, you can't, or aren't willing to accept what being said, then that simply means that you either need to get out more and see the world for what it really is, change your typical ghetto mentality, or that you're stuck in your pathetic world of denial about hearing the truth. That, to me sounds like a personal problem.
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By: Eric on 8/13/2011 7:53AM
Well, I can understand that having to both hear, and digest the truth can be a troubling experience. Hurts, doesn't it? That's, both obvious, and glaringly apparent by your predictable negative immature response. Which, is nothing more than the usual typical BW's tirade! The only thing that you gain from your immature name calling is to blatantly show the world the depth of your ignorance. Tell, me why do BW like yourself always think that someone, or anyone for that matter is putting you down when you're presented with the real truth? That, mind set is nothing but your own all too well known internalized self hatred kicking in, coupled with your ever present state of perpetual denial. Perhaps, this might be a good time to seriously consider recommending some therapy for you to address your myriad of issues. Do, you really think that white people, or any other people are going to view, or embrace you more readily just because you wear fake hair? Can, you possibly be that naive? Pray tell, when are BW finally going to get it in their heads that you can't look like white women? WW, along with the rest of the world already know that reality, so why don't you....still? Why, would you want to anyway? Are, you as a BW ashamed of being black? Ah, I see that's the real issue here, isn't it! What, happened to those African queens? Or, were they just a fake too? Your, comments clearly show not only your profound ignorance, but also your hatred for being black. And, BW wonder why they're considered, by all races of men to be the least desirable, and unattractive of all races of women. You're, a prime representative. Keep, up the good work!
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By: VP Kelly on 8/13/2011 1:05PM
I'm a white man and I'm amazed that every time I come on BV there's some form of black on black attacks on the sight. The deplorable disgusting ways black males demean and tear down their women, who would scream if white men said the same things about them. Then they want to play the slavery card. I never see this on any other ethnic sights. This is a pure sickness, self hate, hating to be a black negroid. That's why all I want to happen is for the Tea Party to win and follow through with building more prisons so we can lock up 70% of the black violent lazy worthless savage black males. They are out of control and must be stopped and caged.
I don't hire black males either because they get on my nerves whining all the time about something and every chance they get they play the race card. Plus they want to be treated like a helpless female and catered to. They could learn a lot from hard working on time Mexican real men who I hire. Black males are the only race of men who totally depend on white men for their survival. Without black women doing the right things and being educated the race would be worst off than it is. With all the problems black males have being accepted by the powers that be the white man its shows how lost they are when they rant and go into hysterics and attack the only person they can their own women. That time should be spent on mentoring black boys on how to be productive men. Pull up their pants, take those weaved girlie braids out their hair and look like a male and tell them they look like male prostitutes on the stroll advertising for butt sex. Its a black homo thug thing. They butt busted while in prison so they come out using it to make money that what black males do. Anything destructive and deadly for money. Nothing will change being negroid no matter what shade the skin is. Black men need to stop all the blaming and name calling and killing each other and find real productive business's building and law abiding manhood. Time to have some shame and dignity and a work ethic and stop being known as the laziest men on earth.
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By: Eric on 8/13/2011 4:54PM
Well, if in fact you're a white man, then "you" of all people have absolutely no room to preach to anyone about demeaning people. That's, exactly what the bulk of white people's history consists of...even to this very day! What do you think the Tea Party is engaged in? Why do they continually, and mindlessly attack the President? Any, "bugwit" can answer that question! It's because he's a black man! That's, the same core elements of racism that you as white people have continued to both foster, and promote for centuries, and all around the globe. So, your input is liken to the "pot calling the skillet black"! You, say that you're amazed to see this kind of back biting whenever you come to this site? Well, in truth white people are directly responsible for why black people, and other people of color engage in that kind of self hatred processes. Because, they've learned from you! Perhaps, you need to put yourself on mute, and go check out your own history and you'll clearly see that reality. So, if yo want to preach to anyone...try looking in the mirror...depositing your quarter, and listening to yourself...about yourself! There, isn't anywhere in the world that white people haven't ventured that they've planted this very same seed, that's largely fed by racism, and the process of them making other people believe that they're inferior to Europeans. That's, exactly what we see in BW today. They have been so brainwashed to want to emulate, and look like WW, because the elements of racism have caused them to be ashamed of their own natural God given hair, and the color of their skin. Which is the core fabric of their very being. Sadly, BW have taken the bait! That again is why BW have spent over "half a trillion" dollars in that continuing effort to try to look like WW, or as less black as possible. But, have failed, and continue to fail in that endeavor. Now, BW look in the mirror, and they hope to see that mythical WW, the same one that they dream about at night...but when they awaken they are confronted....again with the reality that they're still Black. That's just really sad.
Yes, BM I concur have taken strong opposition to addressing the irresponsible behaviors, and attitudes of BW, just as BW have done the very same, and still continue to this day to defile, and depict BM as being the worse of the worse. But, that's nothing but white people's game to divide black people, of which sadly they have succeeded in doing. BW here in this site can, and have been coming here for like forever berating BM! But, it's strange that you failed to mention that in your commentary. Which, shows me that you're all too willing to provide BW with the usual "victim's" pass. But, more in truth it only tells me that you're just really a BW hiding under the guise of perpetrating yourself as being a WM. That's, a familiar, and also a pathetic childish game. But, you've been exposed...yet again! You've, been exposed, because your words, and negative sentiments have the very same tenor as a previous poster that I very recently commented to. So, all you've accomplished is to ..again put yourself out there! In reading your 'first" posted comments, of which you didn't deviate much from what you presented the first time round! That's, clearly shows your hand, and your hole card too! You're, sadly not even either intelligent, nor imaginative to filter in some new, and different elements! That's, a sign of one that's so filled with rage, denial, and nothing but boundless "self hatred"! This is nothing new, but another pathetic display from a BW to try to make a point, that's based on emotion, instead of adhering to the real, bitter facts, and realities about yourselves. Lastly, if anyone needs to show both their pride, and dignity then it's you for coming here, and misrepresenting yourself, not one, but now twice! Stop, playing your usual games, because every time you attempt to undermine someone, you only make yourself look only that much more foolish!
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By: Eric on 8/13/2011 1:12PM
Okay I will admit I'm a transsexual and hate that I wasn't born a beautiful blond white woman. I hate that I have black skin, nappy hair and buck teeth. So now are you happy. I do look nice in tight jeans and have had sex with some of the most macho black men. Beware of the macho man black women.
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By: Eric on 8/13/2011 4:55PM
See? BW will go to their usual childish extremes in this site to try to make a point, not hear the truth, or demean someone with their "FALSE POSTINGS?" But, this is typical, and pointless behavior from BW. However, if it makes you feel better, then please by all means do continue. Nevertheless, the facts remain the real facts. Try growing up. Next!
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